Read: 1 Corinthians 18-20
Marked: 1 Chronicles 19:6, When the people of Ammon saw that they had made themselves repulsive to David, Hanun and the people of Ammon sent a thousand talents of silver to hire for themselves chariots and horsemen from Mesopotamia, from Syrian Maacah, and from Zobah.
David wanted to show kindness to Hanun, but his kindness was misinterpreted as aggression. And so, Hanun treated David’s emissaries shamefully and embarrassed them.
Hanun, instead of admitting his error, and asking forgiveness, he compounded his mistake and hired mercenaries from Mesopotamia and other places. In response, David declares war.
I can, and have, mistaken the kindness of another as an act of aggression. How I respond determines what happens next. Do I want to start a war or be reconciled?
God has given us the ministry of reconciliation. We’ve been commanded to love our enemies and to do good to those who spitefully use us.
God’s ways are always best and there is a better chance for a good outcome if I humble myself in the sight of the Lord.